Fight! Fight! Fight!

My roommates don't really like each other and today they got a little physical....For the sake of their privacy, I'll call one of them Kristen and the other one Carmen. A little background on these two ladies, I lived with Carmen last year with problems, I still have no idea why I stayed with her. I found Kristen so I could get a 3 bed/2 bath, be friends with Carmen so I wouldn't have to and pay less rent overall. Well Carmen doesn't clean after herself and her mom pays for her rent so she is really clueless on a lot of things. Kristen pays for everything on her own, like me, and cleans when she's here, which isn't a lot because she works. They both are in the nursing program so they have to see each other every day. Well things haven't been going well for a while now and today was the day that hell broke loose. Kristen wrote Carmen an email a while ago about how irresponsible she is, how she brought a stray cat into our apartment when Kristen was allergic to cats, and how she's just messy overall. In the letter, Kristen told Carmen that she didn't want to talk to her unless she changed and was mature. Today Kristen wrote Carmen a letter about how her mom was going to come and help her clean the apartment since there is still cat dander everywhere. Carmen wanted to talk to her, but Kristen didn't want to listen so when she did decide to talk Carmen started accusing her of yelling, which she was (but with good reason), and then Carmen started saying that if Kristen didn't want to talk to her, then she should go away, although Carmen is the one who wanted to talk. Talking got to yelling and Carmen called Kristen "passive aggressive" and when Kristen got close to Carmen, Carmen pushed her back. That's where it got worse...that's where I noticed they were fighting. I was in my room during most of the fight watching "The Nanny" and waiting for Joey to get off of work at 12am. I heard Kristen saying, "Don't you ever touch me again!" and when I heard that, I started to walk out of my room, but Kristen was walking back to her room and was ready to leave. She put water on her face, but I didn't know why. I later found out that Carmen threw soup at her. I saw the attempted version to clean up the soup, but it was still everywhere, on the floor, on the stove, on the walls...it was a mess. Kristen says she might report her and get here evicted, but that's not for certain. This has turned out to be quite an issue...and I'm here acting like I don't know anything. I plan to keep it that way. It's not my place to get into their problems, I have my own problems to deal with so I'll update you on the future actions that come. Take care everyone and if you have a roommate, please tell the truth about what you don't like and what's bothering you RIGHT AWAY. This is how things like this happen!

-CabbageQ.-

UPDATE! Kristen reported Carmen, but that's about all she did. Carmen's mother called my father and that got me angry. I had nothing to do with the fight, and more so my father. He was busy the next day so he couldn't talk much anyways...which I'm glad for. He said that Carmen's mother said that Carmen said that Kristen cornered her in the kitchen...which I'm not sure she did or not, but then again this is none of my business. And what got me even more mad was that I hadn't even told my family about the fight because I was busy with schoolwork and it was late when it happened. Well I just can't wait to get out this lease and never have to deal with these girls again!

-CabbageQ.-

What to do...what to do.

Ohhh...I've been eating bean and cheese burritos for 2 days now and I'm still not sick of them :) hehe. God...I'm so Mexican! Well onto the daily things in my life: I spent this whole weekend setting up my honor society with an email, 2 PowerPoints, and an invitation letter for the incoming members. But, while doing that I failed to do my homework and had to get it done overnight. I'm currently looking for another job since I'm only allowed 20hrs/week at school and I can't even work that because I don't have enough work study money left. Great, right? I just applied to 2 local Coldstones:) Gotta have my ice cream! haha. So onto another topic, I'm also looking for a place to live and roommates to live with close to April. I may have found someone, but it's still tentative and as far as a place, who knows? I haven't seen my roommate for a couple of days and I'm very excited about that!
Now onto the love life...Joey and I have been having problems, or at least I think we have. We are so busy, well he's really busy with school and work, that we don't have time to talk as much as we used to. It's been really hard this semester...At the beginning we used to see each other every other weekend, but now it's been every 3 weeks or this time a month. And when I was working at the fair, I didn't see him for a month and a half. I don't see how he can be so calm about it. Maybe it's because he has someone there, his family, his friends and all I have is a friend I see every so often and work...which is not the same thing as family and friends, although I care about them...it's not the same. Joey's not moving and I'd rather not even think about it...why go through all the sadness and hope when I already know the answer?
-CabbageQ.-